September 4th, 2005
5 unholy "B"s
the FIVE unholy "B"s
there are five UNHOLY "B"s which we as christians MUST avoid and not have anything to do with them.
let me tell u all wat the 1st 4 unholy Bs are first,
bad talk
bad words
bad gossip
bad jokes
(james 3:5-14) about the tongue (YOUR talk)
5 So too the tongue is a small part of the body, yet it has great pretensions.33 Think how small a flame sets a huge forest ablaze. 6 And the tongue is a fire! The tongue represents the world of wrongdoing among the parts of our bodies, that pollutes the entire body and sets fire to the course of human existence and is set on fire by hell. 7 For every kind of animal, bird, reptile, and sea creature is subdued and has been subdued by humankind. 8 But no human can subdue the tongue; it is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
9 With it we bless the Lord and Father and with it we curse people made in God’s image. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. These things should not be so, my brothers and sisters. 11 A spring does not pour out fresh water and bitter water from the same opening, does it? 12 Can a fig tree produce olives, my brothers and sisters, or a vine produce figs? Neither can a salt-water spring produce fresh water.
let us go into the 5 unholy "B"s
BAD TALK -
what is bad talk?
- talk that touches on extreme violence
- talk that touches on gratifying (increasing) selfish desires
- talk that is unnecessary
- talk that has no meaning, and no sense and which will change an environment be it cell group, church or family, into a very "COLD" and "less warm" place
- talk that will DISGUST
- talk that will demean character
- talk that does not encourage or build up people
BAD WORDS
what are bad words? this one quite obvious
- the "F" word
- the s h i t word (because this biological product does not come out of ur mouth but from the other end)
- " like you are sooo freaky"
- " u r sooo incapable, stupid, idiotic..etcetc"
- "HAHHAHA..i have nv seen such a _____ b4, u r so ____"
what is BAD gossip? gossip is
- talk that would not be nice if the "main character" of the gossip hears it"
- talk that is NOT TRUE
- talk that is meant to bring down people
- talk that is based on ASSUMPTIONS, and PERSONAL OPINIONS
- talk that is meant to harm someone's reputation
- talk that people indulge in when they have nothing constructive to do
BAD JOKES
what are bad jokes
give you an example: "look people, that "PIG" is here"
"wah U SO UGLY"
- jokes that make people feel too uncomfortable
- jokes that puts down the humanity of a person
- jokes that are made up by a group to TARGET a person
- jokes that get too explicit
- racist jokes
- when jokes are used to offend harshly
Ephesians4:29 "Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Ephesians 5:4 Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.
BAD MANNERS
- snatching things from people, being spiteful, ungrateful etc.
- not giving thanks to God and to people for everything in ur life
- having sudden OUTBURSTS, like screaming in the public suddenly or "fighting" or behaving rowdily
- shouting at each other, slapping each other
- bad games, (physical contact which can become quite ROUGH, or too intimate)
JAMES 3:13 Which of you is wise and understanding? By his good conduct he should show his works done in the gentleness that wisdom brings.
yes, lets have good CONDUCT in Christ today. 